Me: Oh blah blah is expecting a baby
Mum: Aw that's lovely!
Mum: Did you say congratulations?
Me: No.. I think that's weird
Me: Because it's a weird thing to congratulate them on. I think you should say congratulations when the kid is 18 then it's like 'congratulations, you kept your child alive for 18 years and now it can fend for itself'.